by Benita Aydoğan
Dictionaries say; 1 night. 2. Woman with her hair jet black as the night. 3. the last night of the Arabi month.
They call him Leyla Sultan. Relatives of Artvin and his family are Yadigar. In contrast to her name meaning, she was born in the morning, near the end of the month. And her hair was silky, and brunette … And her eyes were blue.
The story of Leyla Sultan influences you, others who tell me about this article. So every minute of your 74-year-old life is worth telling. 70 years ago, almost every girl born on this land as early as everything early … Early marry, get up early, take the early road, the story of those who hear early does not want to delay life.
Sultan or his family as the “Yadigar” was born in Artvin, Yusufeli-Ishan village. She wanted to be a nurse, and she married in 15. She became a mother in 16. She told me, at that time there was no such thing as marrying early, which was normal. And finally she said ‘I saw that I was married.’’
Her husband Lütfi and Uncle Leyla married loved each other. Uncle Lütfi, he has deep blue eyes, brown hair like silk, heart like cotton. He must have thought, “A tough Artvin woman, like iron.” Ad the first child, Nihat.
A year later, they had another son, but they lost it. Then another child, but he too died. Age 20, ‘’ At that time there was no hospital, it was not like the present. I was very upset’’.
When she was 7, she became pregnant again. Again, they were very frightened, but the beautiful baby Nihal was born. The naughty kid of the house. Nihal would have followed him as he ran away from home. Leyla Sultan would have a hard time finding them.
Everyone knows, loves, Lütfi Uncle because the village is a grocery store. He had built the roads to the village of Ishan at that time and although it has been many years since then, inhabitants are still using that road. Age 29. Again, an early lost. Leyla Sultan at the age of 29 lost Uncle Lütfi. A beautiful family of four, who are closely tied together, have suffered a great sadness with the lose of Uncle Lütfi as a result of an unrelenting illness. Their spiritual losses are unpredictable, but the battle for survival is separate, and that is the pregnant of other separations. What to do? Send to school. The first departure from Uncle Lütfi’s another relic village road starts with the departure of Nihat. Then Leyla Sultan, then Nihal.
The children read, knowing the value of their mothers. Leyla Sultan works from morning till evening in a big factory in Istanbul. She gets used to Istanbul. Of course, with the help of his relatives’ brothers.
Now, she has two children, three grandchildren and a cat. She raised her children well for kindness, she did it. How different from the dictionary definition of Leyla herself, change the meaning of Leyla perhaps, whatever went wrong in her life by re-writing them all beautification. ‘’ I thank Allah for that every day.’’





